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Unsent Letter #25

To the arrogant college grad

Julie ZhuoSep 16, 2025♥ 17
SourceThe Looking Glass
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PublishedSep 16, 2025
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An open, personal letter from a manager to a younger, overconfident college graduate she once worked with. The author reflects on how the young person's arrogance was hard to see past at the time, and frames the piece as a look back at a difficult working relationship from her own perspective.

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01Key takeaways

  • Early-career overconfidence can be hard for managers to see past while they are stressed and overloaded.
  • Reflecting on past working relationships can reveal what each side was missing at the time.
  • Writing an unsent letter is a way to process feedback and interpersonal friction years later.
  • Managers can look back at how they handled difficult team members with more empathy over time.
“At the time when our paths crossed, all I could see in the fog and smoke of my life was your arrogance.”Julie Zhuo · The Looking Glass

Summary and takeaways written by PM Atlas; quotes are short excerpts. © the original author.